Some of the Psychological Traps that Lead to Dissatisfaction at Work

If you are feeling like you are not getting ahead at work, are frustrated or bored, then perhaps there is more going on than you realise.

This short video with Seth Godin imparts poignant advice to employees that are feeling as though they are being held back in their jobs.

Seth suggests that when you ask for permission at work to go ahead with some new initiative or project that has a ‘risk’ (perceived or real) attached the likely answer is no.  So how do you work with this?  Part of it is how you approach and phrase things.  The other is to use your initiative, move outside the rule book and your comfort zone and become the expert!  What Seth suggests takes some courage however the rewards are certainly there if you do.

I think that the greatest take away from this video is that what hold’s us back at work, is us. It is what goes on in our minds. We feel stuck more so because of our thoughts than the reality of the situation.

Seth always seems to impart some great advice and this short video does not disappoint. Click view ‘Seth Godin on Psychological Traps That Hold People Back’

Share your thoughts and the video and any other psychological traps that we can fall into when it comes to our jobs.

‘Orbiting the Giant Hairball’ for anyone wanting more out of their work

‘Orbiting the Giant Hairball’ A Corporate Fool’s Guide to Surviving with Grace by Gordon MacKenzie

Just when you thought everything had been said and done before, you wake up from your corporate lull when you read this wonderfully engaging and inspiring book by MacKenzie. A short book, Orbiting the Giant Hairball follows the career and life of Gordon MacKenzie who spent 30 years of his career working for Hallmark Cards and was a Maverick in too manyways to list.

With so many business books (some brilliant, many repetitious) it was just delightful to read this unique book where MacKenzie offers a refreshing insight into corporate life and how we can all perhaps let loose a little and unleash the creative genius that is within us all. “MacKenzie teaches how to emerge from the giant hair ball – that tangled, impenetrable mass of rules, systems, based on what worked in the past and which can lead to mediocrity in the present.” Most importantly he shows us we can benefit as employees and as individuals in achieving a more satisfying work life, through engaging more creatively at work and taking a few risks!

Click to read the full blog post from ‘Orbiting the Giant Hairball’ I wrote for the Six Figures blog a few years ago. I am still just as excited about this book years on.

Why life is too short to be doing a job you don’t enjoy!

For most of us work dominates our lives, regardless of if we are doing a job we enjoy or not, or earning a good or bad salary.  It is suggested that work occupies 75% of our waking hours – which includes all working activities, from getting ready for work, driving to work, working, driving home and anything extra we do for our jobs.

What is astounding is the fact that most people spend more time planning a holiday than they have ever spent on planning their actual career.  I kid you not. This could account for why only 18% of people are actually enjoying their jobs

Talk to any successful person and they will tell you that they had a career goal/s in place supported by a strategy and set in place the actions to achieve them. They also no doubt worked dam hard to get where they are, both working on and in their careers. In turn they generally experience both personally satisfying and financially successful careers.

Taking a proactive approach to career management combined with dedicating time and energy into understanding what it is that drives you and setting in place the motions to achieve results is very empowering. This exercise ‘Looking to make a job or career change’ offers a good starting point.

It does take courage, plus time and sometimes money to achieve the career you want, however given how much of our lives work occupies and that fact that it is how we derive our income it is surely worth it.

You can access lots of great free career resources via the Six Figures site. And/or alternatively you can engage professional support from a Career Coach or Strategist like myself to help get you on your way.

Remember, life is too short to be doing a job you don’t enjoy!

The career benefits that come with having a sponsor

As you progress in your career there tends to be a point where you need a sponsor to go higher, particularly if you are fairly ambitious and have a career goal and path in mind.  While some are happy to ‘do their time’ and hope that the opportunities they want will be offered, others take a more proactive approach to enlist a sponsor.  While mentors are fantastic and certainly play an important role in our careers, nothing beats having an internal sponsor on your side to help open doors.  No doubt you have seen those around you, or maybe even you have benefited from having a sponsor.

Below is an excerpt from an ‘Accelerate Your Career: Find a Sponsor’  which looks at how to go about getting a sponsor as it is not always easy to do.
“If your company doesn’t have a program, there are still things you can do to find a sponsor. Offer yourself for “stretch” work assignments and projects that provide visibility to those at the top. Volunteer for committees where you can broaden your contacts and show your skills. Network – and see establishing relationships across the organization as an important part of your job. When you find potential sponsors, seek and heed their feedback. “

According to a study highlighted in the article by the Center for Work-Life Policy, men are 46% more likely to have sponsors than women.  This is certainly something for organizations to take note of who are looking to build up the number of women in senior roles. It also suggests that women need to be more active in enlisting sponsors as a part of their career strategy.

It is important before you make the decision to source a sponsor that you are clear about what your career goals are, your strategy and the type of sponsor best able to assist you in achieving these.

Share your views on having a sponsor.

Words to sell your skills, engage the reader & land the interview

Most Executives and Senior Professionals find preparing their resume a challenge. As a result the resume is put together quickly and reluctantly, and reads like a chronological list of their education and work experience. At its basic level this is what the resume needs to be, however if actually want your resume to stand out and engage the reader, more energy needs to go into how you write about and sell your skills and experiences. It is difficult for most of us to sell ourselves effectively in a couple of pages of text, yet essential for job search success.

Quantify and Qualify Your Skills!

A sentence that says you have ‘exceptional interpersonal and communication skills’ is largely a waste of text! It tells the reader nothing, yet many resumes have a listing of skills or competencies with no supporting evidence to demonstrate them. You know why you are skilled in certain areas however unless you can communicate them to the reader in a powerful way, they are empty words.

To read this full article visit the Six Figures Jobs & Career Services site

Job Seeking? Over-qualified &/or Over-the-hill?

It’s a common scenario. You are out of work and hunting for a new job, but keep getting told that you are overqualified for the jobs you go after.

Kelly Magowan, a director of Six Figures, says it might not make sense, but recruiters are employed to find people who match the profile for a job. People who are too experienced, she says, are a high risk candidate. The big fear is that they will move on when a better job comes along.

I wonder whether that’s the real reason, or is it because managers are worried about employing someone who knows more than they do? And if it’s a fear of the person moving on, why not take advantage of their knowledge in the meantime and develop a career path within the company that can see them returning to something more akin to their status and experience.

Kelly provides some advice for people who have heard the “overqualified” argument one too many times. It means you can’t follow the traditional channels to recruitment.

In my mind, there is no legitimate excuse for turning someone down because they are overqualified. In fact, I’d suggest nine times out of ten it amounts to ageism. What do you think?

To listen to the interview with Phil Dobbie from BTalk and Kelly Magowan from Six Figures visit BTalk.

 

For anyone at the interview stage, this is a must watch video

Having worked in the HR, Recruitment and Careers space for many years, I am always looking for new information and insights to assist job seekers, our Six Figures members and my careers clients.

Occasionally I come across gold like this 4 minute video which is a must watch for anyone who is about to interview or going through the interview process. It is a very powerful message and one that empowers the job seeker and hopefully will bring about a better job search experience for everyone.

If you are a Sales professional you may already be doing what the video suggests, if you are not – chances are you are lacking the sales edge. So, please invest 4 minutes in your career to watch this video.

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